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Went out with D last night…. Sushi, conversation was good, food was bad. I don’t know what I think about D. He’s different then the others because he actually asks me questions. It sounds like no big deal but he makes an effort to ask my opinion rather then agree or make a blanket statement. It’s a nice change. He’s short, which I can get over, but he’s tiny. As in he’s a tiny little package, and I don’t know if I like that. Re-read that again if you mind has wondered off! Im the same size as him, and if you know me, you know I don’t like that. The bigger the better!J (from the baseball game) called me last night, but I never got to return the call as I was out with D. J is attractive, and tall, and super down to earth, and I also enjoy my time with him a lot. But he’s young, like me, and I think he views this more of a friendship – which is ok, for now, but not for long. He’s certainly more attractive then all the people I’m hanging out with, but since I’m over the idea of looks, he needs to step it up a smidge. I’ll call him tonight, hopefully we can make plans.And M texted and called last night! You would think I would be overjoyed, and I am- but I think he views me as more of a party partner and less of a potential relationship. He asked if I wanted to go over his apt. I said no- he needs to work on making plans more then an hour in advance. Its called Planning.. get used to it! I like all 3 people for all different reasons. They’re all really smart and have a lot of ambition, which I think is super sexy. They’re physical attributes differ a lot from one to another. And I’m glad to report that I’m really enjoying my time with everyone and hope it continues and allows me to get to know them all on a much different, deeper level.A small update- A moved back to Philadelphia, only after booty calling me at 2AM last Saturday… cool… Argentina is in Miami for the weekend, and asked If I want to grab coffee next week- I said sure, but I think that ship has sailed (at least on my end). And there is one other person, a new J whom I have to make plans with….I start school next week, so all of these dates will have to become more serious as not to waste my time. I hope this will continue to keep getting better!

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I’m going to a Yankees vs Red Sox game tonight! But lets back track a bit to see how I got to this point. Last I wrote I was going away on vacation. I went, I’m back, I got sick upon my arrival back home which cut into precious date days. As most of you know, I’ll be going back to school starting next week, which means, serial dates have to take a back seat, but real dates can take the passenger side. I met up with a new D last Wednesday, we went to Stone Rose for drinks. He’s articulate and engaging, probably because he’s 34, but he asks intelligent thoughtful questions. And before I knew it, 3 hours had passed! He’s an entrepreneur and works with a very famous online travel website doing something car rentals. It doesn’t sound interesting at first, but the more I heard him talk about his “start up” the more intrigued I became. Never underestimate my power of detective work with the internet- and that’s all I’ll say about that for now. He owns his apartment in the most wonderful part of the city, the West Village. We ended it with making a plan for dinner sometime this week. Got a text on Friday “hey S its D from last night! I had fun…so when I call you soon, what day should I ask you out?” I thought that was nice. Were going to a new surprise (my fav!) place tomorrow night. Last Thursday I met up with M ( the same one )- he happened to be at a doctors appointment in my neighborhood, and so we met up at a new wine bar and talked. He’s so easy to speak with, and he’s really outgoing and funny. Then we went across the way to get Mexican food, and then to a French restaurant up the street for dessert and a drink. It was getting late, so he walked me home. I really am enjoying my time with him. I wonder if he thinks of this as more of a “going out partner” more so then a potential relationship. He texts me nightly, usually with a “how are you”. Which is nice, don’t get me wrong, but really? And today is Tuesday, if you want to see me again, you should ask me out already- I’m booking fast! I think the next time I see him, I am going to try to be less “friendly and pal-like” and more like goddess you can’t stop thinking about. Nonetheless, I will try to portray a more serious side, because no doubt my “go with the flow” attitude screams, wecan do whatever and I don’t care, but that’s not the case for me, and I’ll change that! Which brings us to today. I’m going to the baseball game with J- the boy from Korean BBQ 2 weeks ago. The same guy who I never called back in the beginning but he had continued to call. I think what’s nice is that were going to do an activity outside of a bar or restaurant, and that should be fun. I’m a bit nervous, bc baseball is a 10 hour event and bc he’s a die hard fan, I doubt we’ll leave early- what happens if I run out of things to say?? Believe it, it happens! He’s picking me up after work in his car, and were driving… this should be fun!