Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Don't cry for me Argentina!
I know I’ve not been keeping up the best I can, and I’m sorry. I don’t have a computer, and the one im borrowing, really blows! Anyway, Saturday I met up with the Argentinean. And all day I was so excited, I cleaned my apartment (just in case he came over) and I napped (in hopes of it being a late evening), I even pranced in front of friends for an outfit consultation (yes that’s what girls do- and side note: I must add that the Arden B dress worked its magic!) We met at this new hip Italian restaurant by my house, and had dinner and drinks. And it was really nice, and I had a really good time. To be honest, the communication barrier of understanding and having intelligent conversations is very frustrating. And even though we had a nice time, it was very apparent. We went back to my apartment for a beer, and made out. And then came the drama. Apparently, his understanding of my sarcasm, and my inquisitive mind is something he can not handle. He has an inability to have a conversation in a normal tone of voice if its something he disagrees with. Ex: I said we were different, and that customs in Argentina are completely different then here.. which he clearly didn’t like, and proceeded to raise his voice. But in a “I don’t have a middle octave range” I go straight from normal convo, to the annoyed “why don’t you understand me?!!?” And thus the entire month of dating began to unravel. To be fair, im not an easy person with respect to holding things back either. And on occasion I could be know to push and push and push until I get what I want… (a quality worth working on)- and that coupling has led to an unfortunate ending, in which I haven’t heard back from him since Sunday which was a small text of saying hi (sent by me). Look- this could mean nothing- although we used to speak a few times a day on email.. or this could be done. But either way, something would have to change, and im not sure if he or I are willing to do that. This should be easy… right?
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